{"id":1548,"date":"2026-05-19T22:08:02","date_gmt":"2026-05-19T22:08:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wellbeinginschools.eu\/?post_type=resources&#038;p=1548"},"modified":"2026-05-19T22:14:49","modified_gmt":"2026-05-19T22:14:49","slug":"be-your-own-bestie","status":"publish","type":"resources","link":"https:\/\/wellbeinginschools.eu\/sk\/resources\/be-your-own-bestie\/","title":{"rendered":"S\u00e1m sebe kamo\u0161om"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure class=\"wp-block-video\"><video height=\"1080\" style=\"aspect-ratio: 1920 \/ 1080;\" width=\"1920\" controls src=\"https:\/\/wellbeinginschools.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/6_BeYourOwnBestie_video_SK.mp4\"><\/video><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph translation-block\"><p><strong>1.\u00davod \u2013 \u201eU\u017e ste sa takto niekedy c\u00edtili?\u201c<\/strong><br>\nHlas:<br>\n\u00daplne si prepadol v teste. Dostal si blok po\u010das prezent\u00e1cie pred triedou. Alebo prech\u00e1dza\u0161 soci\u00e1lne siete a zrazu m\u00e1\u0161 pocit, \u017ee v\u0161etci ostatn\u00ed s\u00fa na tom ove\u013ea lep\u0161ie ako ty.<br>\nA potom... sa v tvojej hlave ozve hlas.<br>\n\u201eSi tak\u00fd tr\u00e1pny.\u201c<br>\n\u201ePre\u010do nem\u00f4\u017ee\u0161 by\u0165 viac ako oni?\u201c<br>\n\u00c1no. Ten hlas m\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 nepr\u00edjemn\u00fd.<br>\nAle \u010do keby si nemusel veri\u0165 v\u0161etk\u00e9mu, \u010do hovor\u00ed?<br>\n<br><strong>2. Vn\u00fatorn\u00fd svet \u2013 \u201e\u010co sa deje vo vn\u00fatri?\u201c<\/strong><br>\nHlas:<br>\nVo va\u0161om vn\u00fatri toto \u010dasto nie s\u00fa len my\u0161lienky \u2013 pre\u017e\u00edva ich cel\u00e9 telo. M\u00f4\u017eete ma\u0165 pocit, \u017ee sa v\u00e1m zviera \u017eal\u00fadok alebo c\u00edtite tlak na hrudi. C\u00edtite sa mal\u00ed. A osamel\u00ed.<br>\nVn\u00fatorn\u00fd kritik sa prejavuje hlasno, najm\u00e4 ke\u010f ste v strese, v rozpakoch alebo ke\u010f sa jednoducho nec\u00edtite dobre.<br>\nA \u010do je na tom najbl\u00e1znivej\u0161ie? V\u00e4\u010d\u0161ina z n\u00e1s by nikdy nehovorila so svojim kamar\u00e1tom alebo bl\u00edzkou osobou tak, ako hovor\u00edme sami so sebou.<br>\nAk by v\u00e1\u0161 najlep\u0161\u00ed priate\u013e mal probl\u00e9my, pravdepodobne by ste mu povedali: \u201eToto je naozaj \u0165a\u017ek\u00e9. Som tu pre teba.\u201c<br>\n<br><strong>3. Z\u00e1kladn\u00e1 koncepcia \u2013 \u201eTu je nie\u010do na zamyslenie\u201c<\/strong><br>\nHlas:<br>\nPrich\u00e1dza na rad l\u00e1skavos\u0165 alebo s\u00facit k sebe sam\u00e9mu.<br>\nNejde o to, aby ste veci prikr\u00e1\u0161\u013eovali alebo predstierali, \u017ee je v\u0161etko v poriadku. Ide o to, aby ste boli k sebe \u00faprimn\u00ed a z\u00e1rove\u0148 l\u00e1skav\u00ed.<br>\nS\u00facit k sebe m\u00e1 tri k\u013e\u00fa\u010dov\u00e9 \u010dasti.<br>\nPo prv\u00e9, v\u0161\u00edmavos\u0165 \u2013 teda schopnos\u0165 uvedomi\u0165 si, ke\u010f pre\u017e\u00edvate nie\u010do n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9 bez toho, aby ste to ignorovali alebo zveli\u010dovali.<br>\nPo druh\u00e9, uvedomenie si, \u017ee nie ste sami. Ka\u017ed\u00fd \u010dlovek bojuje, rob\u00ed chyby a niekedy sa c\u00edti straten\u00fd. Nie je s vami ni\u010d v neporiadku \u2013 ste len \u013eudia.<br>\nA po tretie, l\u00e1skavos\u0165 \u2013 nemus\u00edte k sebe hovori\u0165 ako pr\u00edsny kritik. Sk\u00faste k sebe pristupova\u0165 s porozumen\u00edm a l\u00e1skavos\u0165ou tak, ako pristupujete k niekomu, koho m\u00e1te radi a kto je pre v\u00e1s d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00fd. Lebo vy ste.<br>\nNiekedy je s\u00facit k sebe ne\u017en\u00fd \u2013 akoby ste si dopriali l\u00e1skav\u00e9 objatie.<br>\nInokedy je odv\u00e1\u017eny a siln\u00fd \u2013 aby ste si stanovili hranice, postavili sa sami za seba alebo jednoducho pokra\u010dovali \u010falej, aj ke\u010f je to \u0165a\u017ek\u00e9.<br>\nJe to ako by ste boli svoj\u00edm najlep\u0161\u00edm kamar\u00e1tom... a svoj\u00edm vlastn\u00fdm tr\u00e9nerom.<br>\n<br><strong>4. Relevancia v re\u00e1lnom \u017eivote \u2013 \u201ePre\u010do je to vlastne d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9\u201c<\/strong><br>\nHlas:<br>\nKe\u010f v\u00e1m priate\u013e hne\u010f neodpovie na va\u0161u spr\u00e1vu, m\u00f4\u017eete si poveda\u0165: \u201eTo je v poriadku, neznamen\u00e1 to, \u017ee ma nem\u00e1 r\u00e1d. Asi len pr\u00e1ve rob\u00ed nie\u010do in\u00e9. \u201c<br>\nAk ste nerv\u00f3zni predt\u00fdm, ako sa v triede prihl\u00e1site, m\u00f4\u017eete si poveda\u0165: \u201eJe v poriadku by\u0165 niekedy nerv\u00f3zny. Aj tak to vysk\u00fa\u0161am.\u201c<br>\nKe\u010f sa nedostanete do t\u00edmu, kam ste sa hl\u00e1sili, m\u00f4\u017eete si poveda\u0165: \u201eSom sklaman\u00fd, no to neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee nie som dobr\u00fd. M\u00f4\u017eem \u010falej tr\u00e9nova\u0165.\u201c<br>\n<br><strong>5. Z\u00e1ver \u2013 \u201eZosta\u0148 zvedav\u00fd\u201c<\/strong><br>\nHlas:<br>\nTak\u017ee... \u010do keby ste si nabud\u00face, ke\u010f sa ozve v\u00e1\u0161 vn\u00fatorn\u00fd kritik, sk\u00fasili odpoveda\u0165 l\u00e1skavo.<br>\nAko by to znelo? Sk\u00faste sa nad t\u00fdm zamyslie\u0165.<br>\nPreto\u017ee sp\u00f4sob, ak\u00fdm sa k sebe spr\u00e1vame, n\u00e1\u0161 vn\u00fatorn\u00fd hlas, n\u00e1\u0161 vz\u0165ah k sebe, s\u00fa naozaj d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9. Mo\u017eno viac, ako si uvedomujeme.<br>\nZosta\u0148te teda v\u0161\u00edmav\u00ed a sk\u00faste by\u0165 k sebe l\u00e1skav\u00ed.<\/p><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>1. 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And then&#8230; that voice in your head kicks in: &#8220;You\u2019re such a failure.&#8221; &#8220;Why can\u2019t you be more like  [&#8230;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"featured_media":1444,"template":"","class_list":["post-1548","resources","type-resources","status-publish","has-post-thumbnail","hentry"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/wellbeinginschools.eu\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/resources\/1548","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/wellbeinginschools.eu\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/resources"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/wellbeinginschools.eu\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/resources"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wellbeinginschools.eu\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1444"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/wellbeinginschools.eu\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1548"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}